A simplified look at my life...

Well - sort of.  I'm not mad at anyone other than one person, and no that one person is not Chris.  :) 

 So you see - I have this one girlfriend who i've known since I was born, grew up together, she baby sat me, we remained friends, best friends, now we're slowly parting ways... however I still call her and talk almost daily and when I need to, I vent about Chris.  Everyone needs there person to go to for advice, or to let out a little steam.  So, I always thought - well she'd give me an honest thought of what she thinks and help to sooth my mind.  Well... I was wrong.  Now yes, I understand she may just be looking out for me sometimes -but this gets to be a little too much.

 Now this girl - she's the type that she has her own opinion on anything, and anything she tries to say or do - will be the best, and is the best and you cannot prove her wrong.  Sometimes that's a good thing, other times its bad... or when you tell her something bad, the second she hears that about that person - she hates them.  She's been this way with every one of my friends.... EVERY ONE.  It's almost as if she doesn't want me to have any friends other than her - because a) they either did something minor to me or b) just jealousy.  Oh, and she over exaggerates - uncontrollably almost to the point of lying. bad.

 Well you see - I confided in her and told her about some issues with Chris.  Immediately it was .. "Ohh, I don't like him Krystle"... mind you, she's never even met him yet.  So, I just go along and give her the 'yeah, yeah'...well, it's getting worse and worse.  She finally met him - said he was a nice guy, but quiet... and she proceeds to tell me that I can't be with someone who is quiet.  So - okay, whatever - I like him, so I don't care... I move on.  She is at my parents house one day while we're visiting and she's with her boyfriend who is "oh so perfect in every way and they're going to get married, buy a house, have babies, be rich, get married in florida... la de frickin da..."  anyways, she bases all relationships on that ... oh, and let me remind you - she just got out of a 4 year horrifying relationship... did I put her down for that and tell her that I hated her ex?  No. Because I'm not that low.  Really, I'm not ... I like to look at the positive side of things... vs.  jumping to the negative right away.  That's a good thing, right? .... She doesn't think so.

So the other day, I was talking to her about my thoughts/feelings and I didn't say a whole lot or give her the whole story - just because I know she'd hate him more - which I'm reminded of just how much she hates him, every single flippin time I talk to her - which yes, gets to be oh so very frustrating because I do, truthfully - love him.So - then she jumps and says, oh I have someone you should meet - I'm going to have him email you. WHAT? No, I don't want to meet this other person, nor am I looking for anyone else. If he emails - I will not reply... She got frustrated. Then she proceeds to say .. 'yeah, I called your dad the other night and told him how much I hate Chris and how bad he treats you' ... EXCUSE ME??? You do not call a dad, who has a daughter, and that she's an only child and a daddy's girl - that she isn't being treated right, and you don't tell my dad 'you just wait until you find out.' ... That's rude. Down right rude.... Then she tells me that, "Oh and your grandpa hates him too - absolutely hates him" .... Again, please - you do not tell my family what's going on, nor do you tell them how much you hate my boyfriend. I can shoot down and say rude comments about Chris - but NO ONE else can. Absolutely not. So, every phone conversation I have with her she reminds me of those to things. I can't handle it. I love Chris - he's not a bad guy, and he does so much for me that well, he just doesn't deserve to be treated that way. Who does?

She keeps trying to call me and ask me to return her calls and she's being rude and bitchy about it. I know she didn't call my dad or grandpa and say those things, so - really, why would you say anything like that in the first place? Why. Pull your head out of your ass and think before you speak.

Does she honestly think I'm going to call her back?

I don't think so. Not for a while anyway. I'm plenty capable to make my own choices and know what is right in my relationship or what needs to be fixed. I'm a big girl now, and know what's right.

By the way - yes, my relationship is fine, and yes I'm as happy as can be. I don't need any assistance, and I guess now - I'll keep my comments to myself. Thanks.