Wednesday, August 16, 2006
Happy Wednesday.
So, I never had the chance to update this morning. I appologize. Not that there where many of you hoping and waiting off of my updates, but it's just a nice accomplishment of the day to get out what I need to get out, or what has been bothering me. I.E: The past couple days! It's a little theraputic to write on here, so that's why I choose to continue.
Not much new here in my life. My friend I blogged about a few days ago now sent me an email fuming at the choices I'm making with Chris and that she doesn't want me to complain ever again... etc. You get the point. Yes, she's very controlling. Yes, she's very opinionated. Yes, she lives in a fairytale life. Yes, she thinks she rules all. No, I'm not going to listen to her. While I was having my issues and thoughts with Chris - I took the opportunity and confided in her for advice, comfort, and just a basic friendship.... much to my surprise (not really) she grew to hate Chris. She judged him, and has hated him since day 1 that we started dating. She's the judging type. I'd like a friend who does not judge by all the bad. There for, I'm staying away for a little while. Kind of upsetting since I've been friends with her since well - forever, but I don't want to be around that negativity when I try to go to her for the positive. Oh well - I guess. I have other out there who care, for now.
I'm in a good mood. Things at home are good. Chris is sweet - and is doing all the things that make me happy. We haven't fought for a few days ... only because I stopped and re-analyzed my attitude. It worked. Goes to show, alot of the issues were caused by me, unfortunately. But, in a way that's good because now it's something I can control. You know?
This weekend we're heading to Wisconsin to see my parents. They're only about 1 hr and 10-15 minutes away so it's not too bad. Then Saturday night we're driving back to Minneapolis to go to the Twins vs. White Sox game. Woohoo! Chris just threw that by me today at lunch ... so I'm hoping we're going. He wants to look at tickets tonight - and I checked today. There are only a few left - so we better make a move tonight if we want to go. He even offered to pay for 'our' friend if she wanted to go. So, we'll see. I'm excited. Then Sunday we have a parade to go to for an old town days type thing. It's not your typical parade. It's old farmers, old crazy mis matched bands...it's nuts!! Literally, so that should be fun!
I think that's about all. I'm doing good. I'm out of my depression slump for now. Until the next one, I'm going to look at my relationship with a different outlook. That different outlook is helping so far... Lets hope it continues.
Hope everyone is having a fantastic hump day... It's all downhill from here!
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Great to know you are out of your depression slump! Have fun girl, and keep smiling, and stay away from negative people. Your friend is just jealous about you being so happy with Chris.
The old day parade thing sound like fun!
My hometown used to have Old Settler's day---all the married men had to grow beards or be "fined" or something. That's when my dad grew a beard for the first time (1980) and has kept it ever since. I guess they don't have them anymore though.
You're going to have a great time back home!
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My hometown used to have Old Settler's day---all the married men had to grow beards or be "fined" or something. That's when my dad grew a beard for the first time (1980) and has kept it ever since. I guess they don't have them anymore though.
You're going to have a great time back home!
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